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A Quick Request

As of late, I have been involved in a second year of law school, mock trials, heading a family, and work.  One thing that has been set aside is my relationship with God, and this is not good.  I request those who may read this to remember my struggle to return on an everyday basis to the faith that sets us free. 
 
Thank you.
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The Light in the Darkness

   A week or so ago I had to go on a "rescue mission" for a lost and dear Care Bear.  Yup, that's right.  My son has taken to it as his comfort toy, and my wife had traveled to Cheyenne for the day with them and later that evening realized that he may not have had his precious bear.  So, what's a dad to do?  But of course, retrace her steps in the hope of finding out that the bear may still be where she went.  So, off to Cheyenne I go at about 7:30 pm.  But after scurrying up the pass between Laramie and Cheyenne and then only about ten minutes from the capital, when I finally get cell coverage back, there's a message from my wife saying that Care Bear has been at home all along. 
   The thing is, though, is that she swore he had something in the car but did not come into the house with anything when they got home.  So, seeing that I still needed to shop for a few things, I continue on.  I stop by every place she had been to no avail in finding the lost something, but found what I was looking for.  So, time to come on home at about 9:30.
   By this time, it had gotten dark in Wyoming, and there's no real towns between home and my current position.  In the daytime, it looks as if there is almost nothing.  But here's where my title comes in.  On the way back to Laramie from Cheyenne, a drive I have never made in the full night, I saw a lot I had never seen before.  Most of it I could not make out, because there really are no big places between the cities.  However, the number of lights that could be seen along I-80 was a bit surprising to me because in the daytime, it really looks like there is virtually nothing out there. 
   It soon hit me that in a similar way, this is how we realize what is truly good.  In the day time or when we are in full light, we don't always appreciate the good that we are in.  All too often, we must be in the dark to see what is truly good.  It seems pretty obvious that to best see light it helps to be dark, but it is something different to learn to appreciate all the good around us all the time.  When we are surrounded by good, it is often easy to forget that there is good that we don't see because we fail to look for it.  And after not looking for it, we forget that good is truly everwhere.  We only look for what we can see and not for anything else that is out there.  We miss a lot that way.
   That said, I truly believe that God purposefully puts us in dark places so we can see his light.  All too often, that is the only way we will ever see the things we so often miss.  One of those things that we so often miss is that we are to rely on him for all our needs.  When we are lost in our own light we don't see his, but when we are in darkness, we put out no light.  Only God can give us light, and we must always remember that.  We can put off our own light, but that power is ignited by God, for we are totally lost without it.  And again, sometimes God must put us in darkness to see that simple truth.
   That little rescue mission perhaps was for more than a childs comfort.  Perhaps it was for me, because I may have forgotten the importance of that truth. 
 
 
 
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A Christian Nation?

There was a time when I would have said we are absolutely one, and that our Founders intended it.  My current position has shifted from that idea.  I plan on expounding on many of the thoughts of this in a later post, but wanted to get something down 'on paper' here now, while I take a quick break in reading about the doctrine of impossibility in contract law.
 
This is one that I have thought about for sometime, so here are my quick thoughts on whether or not the United States of America has ever been, wanted to be, or currently is strictly a Christian nation.
 
First, a resounding no!  This great country has never been or never was intented to be a stricly Christian nation.  Despite the belief of most founders, I do not think they ever intended to make this a nation ruled by religion.  Rather, they wanted a nation built on laws.
 
Second, despite the absence of intent to create a religious nation, they did acknowledge the wisdom of Christian principles in American life.  This is important, because they envisioned, in large part, a nation led by a virtuous society.  And given the heavy influence of Protestant thought in the mid to late 18th centuy in America, there is little doubt virtue meant largely Christian virtue.
 
Third, while the nation has maintained this Christian tendency for most of its history (less the last 50 some odd years), it has never been a stricly Christian nation.
 
Fourth, in the conservative movement of the last 20-30 years, Christianity has dominated, and has attempted to institute many Christian principles into office.  This is to counter act the liberal influences that are indeed pervading society.
 
Finally, what does all this mean?  Well, I think it means many Christians need to recheck their priorities.  I stop short of saying that Christianity has harmed the conservative political movement.  This is not true, but the seeming closed-minded and strict approach from many has become a political liability. 
 
It is important to discuss what a Christian is: one who puts the person of Christ first in their life and who follows his teachings, longing for his return.  A Christian who puts politics first comes close to losing his priorities.  Yes, Christ is to be first, but before we look to society at large, we are to look to those closest to us, and love them and serve them to build them up.  I fear many have lost site of that truth.  Further, even if a Christian is to be involved in politics, something I think is actually very possible, that Christian should speak with a humble attitude to lift others up.  I do not argue that this Christian should cave into the sinful interest groups, but that they should be careful as to how they address them.
 
Christians in this nation also need to remember the first three points I listed above.  A proper understanding of civics and history is key to put our role in perspective.  This nation was never intended to be Christian, but it was intended to be ruled on Christian virtue.  And, as Christians invovled in politics, we cannot, and must not, get lost in the power grabbing politics so many wander in today.  If we do, we are no different than any other group.  If we do, we lost the war.
 
Before I wrap this up, I want to make one final point on a bigger issue in Christianity and governance.  God will protect those who seek his protection.  God will not destroy a group that calls on his name.  I stated that I do not have any trouble with Christians entering into and getting involved in politics, this is true.  But I do think the best way Christians can best alter the course of our nation is to turn our focus from the nation, to God-- if we choose to engage in politics, the focus must still be on God.
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The Majesty of God

God is truly wonderful, when you think about it.
 
That he created this beautiful world and the joy that can be found in it.  Every good thing comes from God, and if that is but a part of who he is, can you imagine the joy we will see when we reach his presence?
 
I am not sure I can, and I know I do not deserve the joy that he will bring upon me.
 
 
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A Christian Nation?

Our Christian heritage is true.  By and large, this nation was founded under Christian morals and principles.  Through most of the two centuries, it has ben populated by Christians who went to church and were active in their communities.  People just understood Christianity to be the predominate faith.  We all lived with this and life was good, even though there has also been a sizeable population of folks from other faiths.
 
We are losing this now.  Indeed.  While huge numbers call themselves Christian, the resistance against the faith is growing, and people are less likely to be enthusiastic a) about electing a Christian and b) speaking out for the Christian faith. 
 
I wonder what the best solution is?  Do Christians seek to influence national events by invoking our Christian path?  Maybe, but perhaps a better solution would be to simple turn to Christ, and to serve each other and our communities.  After all, the towards the beginnig of Acts we see an example of how Christianity spread-- by sharing the gospel but also by looking out for those in our 'camp'.  People saw the wondrous things happening within that camp and came to it.
 
I just wonder what impact such an approach would have on our society today.  Instead of forcing government into accepting our policies and ideas as to how they should be, ought we to change our focus to this more local approach?  I do not think we can ignore the national scene, but that ought not to be our priority.  The early Christians lived under an oppressive regime, and it is possible we can, in America, as well.  Christ did tell us to give to the government what belongs to the government.
 
In terms of our Christian heritage, we should always remember that, and it would be good to remind our leaders the warnings given by the founders.  But we can only warn them.  We cannot change them.  Elections could be an opportunity to bring some of our own, but given the truth I spoke of earlier how people, while still calling themselves Christian, separate themselves from the faith and would not likely vote for those who are not afraid of the association.  Unless, of course, we can win them over at home, and that can only be done by focusing our attention to our homes and communities.
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Ever Wonder How God Feels Towards Us?

Try spending time with your children when just won't listen.
 
Despite the trouble they give, and no matter how little they listen, even when you are standing right over them, you'd still die for them because you love them that much.
 
Powerful thought, especially knowing that God sees everything, just as if he were standing right over us as we do our children.
 
 
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Sunday's Thought

Those who say quality time with your children is more important than quanity are wrong.  While quality time is great, just being there with your children is the best way to get to know them and they you.  Yes, some interaction with the little ones is necessary, but when they know you are there it means more than partaking big or special events. 

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A Daily Thought on Faith

In your life, who do you need to thank the most?  Have you thanked them?

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Why do People Do...

I am not perfect, and have my own  quirks.  But I have been wondering why some people do certain things?
 
Like, for example, why does one get her nose pierced?  Why does he put weird things through his neck?
 
I know, I know, there's nothing inherently wrong with it,  but why do they choose to alter their appearance?
 
I could list a million things and question why people do them, but I won't list them all.  I will list a few:
 
     Why do women want to wear very revealing clothing?
     Why does anyone get multiple tatoos?
     What about drinking-- why might one look to alcohol to make them happy, or to alleviate stress?
     Why do people enjoy getting into trouble?  Get a kick out of 'breaking the law'?
     Why are people so quick to look down on others?
 
I'll stop there...  First, let me say I have done some of these things (no rings, no revealing clothe, nor tatoos, though.)  But the questions I think have answers. I think the answers are in our desire to be loved and to get attention.
 
Sure, some will excuse the actions as doing their own thing and not conforming.  OK.  But why?  Why does wearing decent clothes and not getting tatoos all over your neck mean you are conforming?  It doesn't.  One could argue that tatoos are actually conforming, as are nose rings, lip rings, belly rings, and any other type of piercing you can get.  You can also argue doing those crazy things for the thrill of it is also conforming. 
 
I don't mean to say that everyone who does these things is acting in a way to gain acceptance.  But, in a sense, they are.  Why does this matter?  Well, it has always baffled me how far people will go to make themselves feel important.  Hence that last question from my short list. 
 
It is my belief that most people do these things to feel important.  Now, 'important' here should be taken loosely.  It can mean pompous, powerful, distinguished, different, its own 'thing', whatever, but all mean that the person seeks something they can say this with: "Look at me!"
 
Well, all too often, we (at least I do) look at these people and ask why?  Really, what is it you are trying to prove?  The reasons can be myriad, but I do tend to think these people (and this probably makes me guilty of that last question) are trying to prove something to someone, most likely themselves.  (Also, the so called 'preppies' have their fair share of 'conformists'.
 
Now, here's, though, where I am ultimately going with this: there is something out there that can provide all the comfort you need.  It is in Christ.  Christ will lead you to that comfort, that everyone seeks.  Looks don't matter, but the desire to succeed and do your best does.  You have nothing to prove in Christ, because there's nothing to prove.  No matter how much we try, we can not meet his expectations.  But here's the glorious part of that thinking-- he looks past all that and loves us the same.
 
So, in the end, I wonder what all these people who-I-wonder-why-they do-what-they-do would do if they found Christ?
 
I imagine the world would look quite different.
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A Quick Thought on Faith

God is wonderful, but sometimes we don't always get what he wants right away.
 
Always, though, we must wait to see it through.  Waiting is not one of our strengths, as mere men.  God requires out patience, and our desire to be with him.  It always requires this element: trust.
 
Everything that happens to us is for a reason, and do we trust him enough to see it through?
 
We don't always like the immediate answer, but if we are faithful, we will in the end.
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Brokenness

I am reading a book, Brokenness, by my current pastor, Lon Solomon.  Actually, it is his only book, and while I have not finished it, it brings up a concept that I find very intriguing.  That concept is brokenness and its application to reaching God.
 
A little bio on Lon, first.  As he has been the pastor of McLean Bible Church since 1980, he has seen its rise to its size and influence now, but in 1992, he and his wife bore a daughter.  This daughter, Jill, soon starting having innumerable and uncontrollable seizures and it has caused her to be permanently disabled.  The journey from the joy of having a daughter after three boys to the pitfalls of constantly caring for an unknown ailment brought Lon to his knees.  Since then, he became aware that God broke him from relying on his own skills and to rely on God's for him to reach his goals of reaching DC to reach the world.
 
His concept is really quite simple: God must break every Christfollower before they can go on to fully serve Him.  Every believer must be destroyed, so to speak, before God can lift them up and work fully through them to acheive His goals.  In searching the Bible, one is hard pressed to find an example of a person working for the glory of God to not have been through trials and utterly humiliated or battered first.  From Moses and Abraham to Peter and Paul, God breaks us of our will so He can instill His own.
 
But the application of this idea is very difficult.  And this is where I am in his book, so I don't wish to go too far in that direction.  But I would like to discuss some of the idea of brokenness in our lives.  Since I have been reading, I am wondering if I have been truly broken?  I don't know.  I don't think so, even though I know I have seen some valleys.  I don't think I have been truly broken.  But I think that God will break me, and that scares the heck out of me.  I don't want it.  I want to be a voice for God on my own, with where I am and where I will go, but I want to go up, not down.  But this is exactly what Lon says we all want and what we must avoid.  To him, we must allow God to tear us down, because only then will we know how much we need God.  He quotes Charles Stanley when he says that we don't know how much we need God until he's all we have left.
 
But I wonder how many of us truly allow ourselves to be broken, completely and fully.  I bet like me, most of us are scared of it, or confused by it.  Lon actually talks about some of the impediments to brokenness, but I think virtually all of us resist being broken.  Why?  Why do we resist God's will?  For me, it has been my own pride and my own desire to contol my life.  I hate to feel out of control.  I bet whoever reads have there own reasons, too.
 
Getting battered and bruised.  Being sent to the wilderness for forty years (as Moses did), being called out on a weak heart and blatant lie by God (as Peter was), seeing all my work burned to the ground (as was Moody), or fathering a child who doctors said would not live beyond age 10 cannot be fun.  But is it necessary?  I think there is truth to the idea, and wonder if I am willing to be broken.
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Alone

I am alone
At home and alone
Little furniture
Only memories.
 
I am alone.
Bride is on the road  
And the boys in the back
Yet I am at home.
 
I am alone
Lonely and tired
Of being alone
And afraid of tomorrow.
 
I am alone
And hate to be home
In the house I love.
But, I am alone.
 
I am alone
And talk often
To the ones I love
And cry when I'm done.
 
I am alone
for a short time
And then begin my treck
When I won't be alone.
 
I am alone
And when alone
I ponder all I miss
and long to see and touch.
 
But I am still alone
Though it won't be long
Until I can see and touch
And Hold the real things.
 
When I am not alone
I will jump for joy
Because I will be home
And realize I was never, nor ever will be
Alone.
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Fire and Brimstone

Its real, fire and brimstone.  No one should kid themselves into thinking they are not.  Fire and brimstone exist now, and will forever.  And some, most even, people will be thrown into a lake of fire and gnash their teeth forever and ever.
 
This is a pretty terrifying thought, and I hate to admit it as truth, but it is truth.  I could list a number of Biblical passages to show it, but we all know it is in the Bible.  And some now wish to deny that it truly speaks about what is really there.
 
This is a dangerous thing to do, for we are given due warning about what will come if we deny Jesus and his death on the cross and subsequent resurection from this very real death.  If we deny what Jesus did and rest outside of him, we ourselves will be trapped in it forever.  Jesus provided the way out of death, and unless we follow him, we will not have a way out of it.
 
Luke 16 presents this as clearly as any other part of the Bible, I think.  The rich man condemns Lazarus, but when both are physically dead, the rich man can only plea to Lazarus and the saints to free him.  They are powerless to do so, as there is no way over the abyss. 
 
Hell, friends, is a very real place, and God will send many there come the appropriate time.  There will be no second chances to repent once our life physically ends.  Our souls will live on, and we will be reunited with out bodies, but the destination of our souls is determined now, in this time and in this present life.
 
I talk much of love, and feel that we ought to live our lives in love.  Talk of fire and brimstone is in a sense a departure from love, but in another, it is the epitome of it.  For those who do not warn others of the impending doom and eternal torment they face are not showing true love, because they hide the truth.  Churches that only focus on the goodness and love of Christ do themselves and their congregations a disservice. 
 
Believers ought not live in fear, as in Christ we are freed from eternal damnation, but for those who do not believe, while God loves you and wants you to return, he is not above reproach and detests your rejection of what he did for you.  For that choice, he will rain fire and brimstone on your head for eternity.
 
This is truth.
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Faith and Politics

This is a difficult topic to write about, as both are taboo at the dinner table, so to speak.  And to speak about them together is often a recipe for disaster.  However, I will attempt to write about them as one topic, as I view them as forever intertwined.  Religion and politics are really different sides of the same topic: they both define who we are and why we do what we do.  But that philosophical question is not the main topic of this post, rather, it is the practical application of that idea.
 
Faith and politics are issues many avoid because they cause so much division.  Both are claims to truth, and both have very different and numerous ideas that are often in conflict.  Because of this, coupled with our desire to be correct, so many avoid the topics altogether, especially when they are joined together.  This is what it is, and will probably never really change much. 
 
When we discuss religion, we discuss politics; and when we discuss politics, we discuss religion.  In order to complete my point, I must expand a little: religion is what we value, and politics is what we wish to enact publically based on what we value.  I know I am greatly simplifying these ideas, but bear with me.  When we go to church, or wherever we worship (could be the mall), we say we espouse certain ideals.  When we vote, we hope put into action what our values are based on the candidate that best represents these values.
 
This is all too often disconnected in todays society.  It has become the norm for a person to talk about personal spiritual matters and standards and offer a different standard for others.  How can this be?  First, let me flush out some thoughts:
 
First, we are all people of faith.  That is something we all should realize.  Whether we are Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Mormon, Buddhist, Atheist, Agnostic, or political, we are all people of faith.  That is, we all put our faith into something.  Whether it is on a personal God and savior or a political party or a market economy or a video game or an alcoholic drink, our faith is in something.  Our faith is based on some hope that something will lead us to a better life.  Whether we get that satisfaction from a worship service on Sunday morning or buying a new gadget or purse, we live for something.  We are all people of faith.
 
Second, where we put our values should come out in how we act.  If we are truly concerned with helping others, we will strive to do so in our everyday lives.  We can do this in any number of ways, but we will mostly live this out by our activities.  If we are driven by competition, everything we do will be a race or a game, trying to outdo the opponent.  This to, is seen in what we do everyday.  I can go down a list, and demonstrate this truth, but it should be fairly obvious: our values will dictate how we act.
 
How we act, then, should dictate how we think politically.  And this is where we see what one truly believes, religiously.  If one can excuse an abortion publically, then one cannot truly abhor it personally, or by faith.  These two ideas are mutually exclusive.  Now, one can say, "I would never have an abortion but would allow another to do so if they think it right" is really creating a cop out.  This person doesn't like abortion, but doesn't hate it either.  This person, I argue, does not really believe abortion to be evil but tolerable if undesirable.  Their faith is that abortion is ultimately OK.
 
Not all issues are as cut and dry as abortion.  Taxes, for instance, are quite another story.  Christians are told to let what is unto Caesar go to him.  Specifically, this means to pay your taxes, no matter what amount that is.  Going further, it is a command to follow the state's law, whatever the law is.  How far, though, is this to be taken, and in what capacity?  There are those that argue that this leads to a complete separation, and we are to ignore matters of faith politically.  Who we vote for should be a decision made solely without the influence of faith and rely on practical matters of organization and governance.  A politician's faith should not matter, but rather what they can do to lead is what matters, they say.
 
However, I argue that what they believe on matters of faith should play a prime role on who to elect for office.  And this is seen not by where they go to church or service, but what they actually do.  If we take our faith seriously, this should be our driving force, or we will end up with politicians who think faith is of little value and act accordingly.  Unless I am mistaken, the majority of Americans take faith seriously, yet seem to ignore faith come voting time.  I think this is seen in how our politicians and judges act, and they are increasingly acting in a faithless manner.
 
One last thought.  I am a Christian, unapologetically Christian.  But I think that in terms of values, all faiths share so many ideas: family, strength of innocence, limited government, and a desire to positively affect society at large.  We can focus on differences, or we can unite in our shared values.  Unfortunately, we focus on the differences all too often, which is why we can't talk about faith at the dinner table, or in politics.
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Worship Style

God wants us to worship him.  I would expect most believers to accept this as truth.  I would also expect most believers to have some sort of disagreement on how we are to worship him.  Are we to worship him in reverence and awe?  Are to shout exclamations of joy and happiness?  Are we to be sober and rational?  What of emotion-filled moments of wonder?
 
One word answers them all, emphatically: Yes!  We are to worship him in everything we do, in every emotion, and in every time we study or pray, we are to praise and celebrate him.  The manner is not important, but the action is.  We must worship him, and this is one thing we should all remember and put aside differences in style.
 
However, unfortunately far too many Christians cannot do this, and set up division among churches and Christ's family.  The style of worship is not a primary issue, I think.  It is that we worship him and him alone and seek to get closer to him.
 
My current church is actually on the progressive side of this issue, as many traditional Christians wish to stick with tradtional forms of worship: old hymns, group readings of scripture, creeds, declarations, etc.  The Doxology is a great example of this tradition.  There is nothing wrong with this idea, if it brings you closer to God.    But those who reject modern worship songs and cannot imagine a service without responsive readings miss the idea of worship.
 
Worship is celebrating God, not a ritual.  Ritual can celebrate God, but it is not necessarry for celebration.  Ritual can be tiresome and habitual, thereby diverting our attention from God to what it is we "always do".  What we "always do" is a robotic response, and distracts us from God's presence.  I do not wish to say that ritual cannot bring us closer to God, for it most certainly can, but it is neither necessary nor always beneficial.
 
Why do I bring this up?  My church, McLean Bible Church, just brought in a new pastor, a former associate dean at Moody, who preached this past Sunday.  His sermon was very good, on a topic dear to my heart: "Has Love Lost Its Meaning?"  But his style was very, very different from what I have seen at MBC-- much more "traditional".  It was refreshing to actually have a responsive reading outside of Christmas or Easter. 
 
That said, it got me thinking about how so many people will refuse to go to a church because they don't like the style.  We've all seen it before, somehow.  I really think this is a shame, as what we should be looking at is the heart of the church to God.  While I do think there is room to decide on a church based on style, it is outside our roles as followers of Christ to refuse another part of the same body because they do not like the style it follows.  When we do this, we create division, and when we do this, those outside of Christ see the ridiculous attitudes that follow.  They see the pride and the pettiness, and it turns them off because it is no different from what they see in the world. 
 
Are we to look past differences in worship style?  Yes, but we are not to look past differences in key doctrines.  I add this only to be sure that it is understood that I speak of Christ centered churches and those who adhere to what the Bible truly espouses.  No matter the worship style, if a church leaves this area and delves into heresy, it should be avoided at all costs.  But if one church only chooses not to dance, and another is all about rock and roll driven worship songs, and what is taught is exactly the same, there is no excuse for excluding one over the other.
 
I am thankful most Christians see this, unfortunately, there are others who still don't.
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